Archive for January, 2010

Do your “Girls” make you “Busty”?

Some women take offense at the adjective busty, especially when its used on oneself. They prefer the lingerie industry term “full bust”, the safer adjective “chesty” or simply being identified as “large breasted”. I suppose women who are large of hip take offense being labeled “hippy”, that would upset me also.

Busty

Likewise some women are offended by the term boob. They call them the ever popular slang “girls”, the clinical “breasts”, etc. Lucky for me I am not easily offended, and actually use the term boob to refer to breasts quite frequently. I do not call them girls, maybe because I have two daughters and they are my girls. Nor do I prefer to call them breasts, because men and chickens also have breasts.

Not Busty

Really I want to hear from you. What do you call your body type? Are you self described buxom? And how do you refer to your bust? I say bust and bustline most often now that I’m more aware of the sensitive and tricky nomenclature issue surrounding the mammaries.

Perky, Seamfree (large) Breasts

The last client I fit in a bra (she was really a friend as I’m moving out of bra fitting and into designing more apparel) was a single, thirty year old nurse. I don’t know why I feel the need to give you that background. We fit her in a G/GG/H cup, depending on the brand, with a size 32 back band.

We found a beautiful, but expensive, three part seamed cup bra. But being on a limited budget and given her lifestyle and wardrobe needs we opted for the less expensive t-shirt bra.  Now, as you hopefully know, a seamed bra helps reduce nipple show-through by placing the nipple directly behind the seam. The pressure of the seam facilitates keeping the nipple “under wraps”.

However, without seams women are nervouse of nipples expressing themselves at inopportune times. Thus the client purchased a pair of nipple concealers.

Which just seems like a bunch of work to me. Is Pamela Anderson what we wish to attain? Big, round, perky, smooth and nipplefree boobs? Definitely women think this strategy – seamfree bra coupled with nipple concealers (it cost us about $115 to get out the door that day) is necessary when wearing tight knit tops.
What about you?  Are nipple concealers required to feel confident? For what its worth, I wore a similar thing when nursing my third child, which is probably why I’m not interested in wearing them now. But, then again, I don’t even have a seamfree bra.  I don’t look nor feel good in tight knit tops.

Why the neckline is so important

All day yesterday I wore this sweater (over the Carissa Rose Farrah Shell in persian red) I received for Christmas.  After wearing it twice the tie broke so I had to wear it completely buttoned up with the cowl neck, as opposed to just buttoning one button and cinching the waist with the tie.
As I walked the cowl neck had a life of its own.  The thing bounced each time I took a step.  I guess resting on a FF bust was just too much of a spring board for it. 
Which segues us into the neckline discussion.  The neckline is important (in addition to no cowl necks allowed) because if its too low, “you look like a sl*t”! At least that’s how one client put it. She followed her comment with, “if I get something that fits the neckline and bust, then I just look chubby because its big in the waist”. And she is a curvy Italian, size 4 SW (small well-endowed) in our line.
Even wear to work pieces have necklines so low that they require wearing the ubiquitous camisole, which adds extra bulk, which is usually unwanted bulk.
Over to you, what are your neckline pet peeves?  Or better yet, what are the necklines you feel good in and enjoy wearing?

Pretty Sleepwear for the Full Bust

Just this week a client emailed us looking for a sleep solution.
As you know we are fans of Sleep Top (we have to give a shout out to our neighbor Margeurite McGee Haygood the designer).  I have one and it is in my sleep bra rotation.  We even had one client purchase their Sleep Top on Amazon.

I am super excited to introduce you to Bijte.  Several months ago Diana St. Louis called me and spoke about her new line of indulgent sleepwear for the full bust.  Bijte targets the small band-big cup, beginning with C cup.  Each style has an inner mesh sling (also known as a cookie) for soft support. 

Ms. St. Louis is sourcing beautiful fabrics, lace and silk, to use in her designs.  I vouch for the high quality fabrics as I’m familiar with the fabric houses Bijte uses.  In addition, Diana is a pleasure to talk with. 
My birthday is this week, Wednesday to be exact, and I’m thinking I should treat myself to one of these pieces.  I may be into bras, but my husband always reminds me, “but you don’t wear lingerie”.  This may be my chance.